Helping oneself

How can I help someone if I can't help myself?
I have problems situations in which I cannot control....I have to choose to go through with them or leave them. 
When I go through with them I choose and I have to stand by my decision.  I have to be strong.  I cannot let myself fall because the only one that can help me is myself. 
I have to have hope inspiration positive attitude.  I am in charge of my own feelings and I shouldn't let anyone else choose my feelings for me. 

Love song

I am in love.  At least I think so with a man. I am certainly in love with my two daughters.  That is without a doubt. 

I'd like to think that a certain song was written about my new love and myself. .. but lately no love song fits us anymore. 

Could it be that I wasn't really in love?
Could it be that I'm not in love anymore?

What happened that I feel this way?
I hope that I don't fall into depression.  I would hate to be that person again. 

So what love song is about us?  I don't know.  I hope that I find that special song.  I need that song.